Shift Your Habits
Blog post #11 of #ShiftYourHabits by Dace Pavloviča
Choose People Who Supports You!
Today let’s talk about importance how significant it is to choose the right people next to you!
As we all know – people surrounding us, affect us. And unconsciously in the one moment we will overtake their vision of life, their way of thinking, their beliefs and thoughts. Unconsciously we will take as our own. We will start to see this world with their “eyes”.
What happens if you mostly communicate with negative people who are disappointed in everything and blaming everyone what has happened to them? You are listening to what they are saying, trying to support them, but if there is no interaction and they still keep going in the same negative direction and are not ready to experience any changes in their lives, it can take you down also to the much more pessimistic state where you become like them.
And you can start to refuse from your ideas, from your dreams as well. And in quite short time you can start to see all around you as hopeless and powerless also. You overtake the same mindset as your closest people have (again – unconsciously) and guess what will happen next?
You will lose your strength. You will lose your belief in yourself. You lose your belief in your dreams also.
It is not just about people surrounding you. It is about YOU. What you feed your subconscious, is what becoming more and more stronger IN YOU.
Let’s imagine human brain like computer. All what we program our “computer”, is what accumulates (goes directly) in your subconscious.
We can choose the programs we install on our computers. But once installed those programs will run automatic. (And it will be much more difficult to reinstall them. To find the program in our subconscious which doesn't help us to move forward. Therefore it is much easier - not to install undesirable programs at the very beginning.)
What if all the time negative information is what we feed ourselves? It accrues in us. And it becomes stronger. We do start to notice more and more negativity around us. And less opportunities. We start to focus on all the obstacles we have.
And next step – again unconsciously – we start to blame others, living with victim’s mindset (feeling powerless not powerful).
You can’t change other people. But you definitely can choose the people with whom you spend the most time with.
If those people will be like-minded, supportive for you, you will be ABLE much easier to achieve your goals, your dreams as they will be interested in your success and in the fact you could be happy!!!
Choose the right people next to you. Choose people who supports and accepts you. And it doesn’t mean they always should be thinking as you think. Not at all! But in overall this environment which will be supportive for you, it will help you open your wings toward your dreams!!!